I would recommend 'Crazy Stupid Love' to everyone. Couples - to realize the importance of your other half and if you have think s/he is your soulmate, hold on to him/her and never give up. Recently single - it's not wrong to go out and flirt and exercise your right as a single person but is that really what you want? Are you really happy letting your past relationship go without trying? Time to reflect. Single - Somewhere out there...your soulmate is there (cliche, but no harm believing in this) searching for you. You just have to be patient and trust that the right time will come. Confused - Just go there for a good laugh. =)
Today I have to erase/remove/untag/delete photos of me and him. Doing that just means I have to go through the pictures we took together or pictures we tag each other in when it reminded us of each other. Deleted pictures of me and him from my profile pic album, removed pictures that I'm tagged with him (thanks to fb's new system, I hope that means I untagged myself), deleted the album of our trip to Singapore and NZ.
I think I got to rest. Every time I conclude my blog post, I always remember the stars he gave me that I will put at the end of my posts. Let's pray my memory of them will fade soon.
xx
6 screamSSss!!:
The sun always rises on the next day.
I may not be in a good position to say this, but:
Rather than trying to erase the memories or let them fade,
it is much more rewarding to actually cherish them, be grateful for those memories, and then push on in your life and find other treasures in life.
One day you might think back on those days and might actually joke or kid about it. (not in a demeaning way)
One way or the other, a past romance could have showed you how the many aspects of love could be.
btw, Crazy Stupid Love is nice ^^
Hey 'anonymous',
I didn't want to erase any of it because he was part of me and I would never deny him but he ask this of me..why fight it? If he wants to erase me, me insisting to keep our pictures won't change anything.
Thanks for the message. May I know who you are?
hmmm,
did my name say "annonymous"?
i thought it said "SAY Angel WINGS".
I suppose you do have your point. If it is comfortable for you to do this, then I don't see anything wrong then.
Memories are kept in many more forms than just photos. Deleting the photos doesn't always erase history or memories. I am sure deep inside yourself his presence will not be completely erased from your memories, but it will be a past chapter in life.
If it is true that you are actually able to move on from this chapter, then you are actually doing much better than me.
Do you have a FB account? probably would be easier to intro myself if you had one. I'll send a friend request or something. Then again, I am just a passerby and do not pose any significance at all.
Haha..yes it does say 'SAY Angel WINGS' but it feels like anonymous since you do not have a blog.
Memories of me and him won't be erased just because 100+ photos are deleted from fb. It's in a box, it's in the perfume I use, it's on my table and most importantly, it's in my mind and heart. I'm doing that because why be stubborn?
Yes, I have fb. It's good to know another heartbroken soul =) Search me: Angeline Lee studying in University of Auckland.
Would you believe in the philosophy that every humans become a more complete person as each chapter of their life passes?
One fact, however, is that if we can somehow remove a chapter from our lives, we become incomplete as a person.
I do agree with doing whatever makes yourself feel at ease. As you say, "Why be stubborn?"
I should ask myself that question. But I view my problem in a totally different light.
Yes I do believe that. As we progress, we learn and our book gets thicker and more like a story instead of a magazine article right?
Well, apparently you're not doing very well with how you're progressing so ask yourself the question again. Why be so stubborn? Maybe if you let some stuff go, your problem could be smaller. =)
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